thanks for the info on WD hitches and LL hesitation to recommend... I spoke to Hensley today about their SwiftCub hitch and he stated that with the aluminum A-frame they recommend that instead of using self-drilling bolts you would substitute and additional u-bolt. I've not read anything on an Anderson hitch. You tow with an Anderson hitch, David? I'll check them out. My husband and I are sold on using WD and anti-sway style hitch... just to help off-set some of our newbie-nerves.
We estimate about 500 lbs in the vehicle with adults/kids and the very few items we'd carry in the truck. That would leave us with 655 lbs for tongue weight if I'm understanding this all correctly. The ecoDiesel is rated to tow 7,200 (before factoring in extra weight in vehicle). Very curious to know what your tow experience is like.