Hello!
I previously posted here asking for advice on possibly towing a QS 8.1 with my existing Honda CRV. After some good insight on that thread (thanks all!) and some further research on the web, we ultimately decided that we want to step it up a bit in terms of a TV since the lease is up on the CRV in early 2017 anyway, and will be a good opportunity to shop for the "right" TV for us. I received a lot of mixed-advice on the CRV (some said it would be fine or that they already tow a QS with a CRV, while others said "No way!"). Bottom line: We'd rather play it on the safe side, and want a very clear "thumbs up" that we have a good TV / camper match.
Next priority after towing safely with our family of 3 on-board, is that we find the right
economical balance of a TV that will primarily be a daily commuter with a toddler. So ideally we want good safety ratings + good fuel economy + basic towing capability (I know, I know -- we want our cake and to eat it too

). My search for this tricky trifecta led me to looking at the Subaru Outback. AWD, excellent safety ratings, great fuel economy, and has a listed towing capacity of 2700 lbs / 200 lb tongue weight for the baseline model.
Question for you fine experienced folks is this: What would be a good LL match for one of these Subaru Outbacks (if any)? Anything larger than a QS 6.0 is on the table (wifey wasn't keen on that one, but open to the rest), so what I'm looking for is a good balance of space with a good buffer zone between the trailer and the 2700 lb capacity. On the conservative side, how high in the LL models would you go with an Outback? Are there any Outback owners here, and if so what are you pulling?
Last question -- I'm also open for other options comparable to the stats of the Outback if you have any suggestions. For example, one other option we were looking at was the Ford Escape Titanium SE (listed as 3500 lb capacity) but there were some safety-rating concerns with the Escape (it scored "Poor" on a specific frontal-collision category). I should mention also that top-end budget is $30K-ish.
Thanks in advance for any insight!