Decided to create a new thread on this modification as it is discussed in several locations but added the word "stability" to try to make it a little easier to find when searching the forum.
I looked at the table/dinette stability issue for some time reading different threads on the forum etc. Not wanting to spend a lot of money and basically wanting significant improvement in the table stability, I decided to move the single pole holder/pole insert located under the table in the middle, to the left. I turned the top so the long part touches the dinette the back of the padding. This makes it easier for us to get into the seating area and creates a little more room. I then took some styrofoam sheets and glued them together to create a 10.25" height x 18" width x 4" thick block that the table top sits on, the block creates a wide base which really improves the stability. I also use velcro to attach the top to the cushion to help keep it from moving. It is not as good a attaching it to the wall but this way the bed can still be used easily and no holes drilled in the wall. It is 10 times better than the single pole set up and now we consider this issue resolved. It still moves a little but again nowhere near as before. This mod cost about 15$. I did cover the styrofoam with black cloth to make it a little less visible. I think the pictures do a pretty good job of showing the change, the velcro is on the end of the table top and the foam padding which you cannot see in the picture.(//)